Dating Advice

10 Communication Tips to Eliminate Arguments
by DatingBetter.com

The most common cause of relationship breakdown is a lack of communication. So, refrain from arguments and start building a healthier relationship through effective communication skills...

1. Each event can be seen from different points of view, therefore avoid assuming that the other person sees things like you do. If that were the case you wouldn't be having an argument.
2. Not all disagreements are bad. Some are constructive and healthy for a relationship, but do avoid destructive arguments.
3. Avoid assigning blame. Be considerate and honest about your feelings and communicate in ways that show respect for your partner.
4. Avoid criticizing, hurting, and lashing out at the other as this shuts down communication. Start healing by giving positive reinforcement and support to start opening the doors to effective communication.
5. Avoid exaggerating your hurt feelings and try to understand why others feel and act the way they do. Be reasonable, courteous, and respectful.
6. Ask relevant questions and listen carefully. Avoid lecturing and riding on the other.
7. Stop nagging, whining, or manipulating the other person by refraining from interrupting, name-calling, sarcasm, or pouting.
8. Avoid yelling; instead try to speak in a soft and polite voice. Perhaps even whisper during an argument.
9. Relax and be aware of your tone of voice, body language, posture, and facial expressions.
10. If an argument is over-heated and going nowhere, just walk away to cool off.

Good Luck Dating Better!

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